My husband has cancer- he’s acting like there’s nothing wrong with him and I’m so stressed out I don’t know what to do. I’m a parent of a 9 year old boy and 11 year old girl.

Things are so difficult right now. I’m trying to work, care for my husband, look after 2 distressed young children, do everything and not lose my mind. It feels like my partner who has cancer is minimising his health and pretending to the world he’s not sick and he is really sick. When he dies this which is all the time it feels like it completely invalidates the terrible distress myself and my 2 children are experiencing.